In 2001, God laid a burden in the heart of the author, Bishop Joseph Mathenge, of reaching out to every hurting man. For many years he had lived with this in his heart and mind. Over the years, he has come across men who are hurting and who need a shoulder to cry on. This is the driving force that propelled the author into writing the book. What he shares with the readers is an experience that he has gone through for many years and it culminated into a written material. According to the author, a time has come for all who are like-minded to stop burying their heads in the sand and face the challenges head-on. Unless we face these challenges, we will have ourselves to blame in the near future, the author says.